One of the things that perpetuates the notion that John Mayer is a total asshat is his inability to just keep his yap shut about himself and his life. Whether it’s blogging, dressing up like a bear to talk to his fans about himself, or making comments to anyone who will listen, there’s not much about John Mayer or his life that people don’t know even if they don’t want to. For this reason, the word douche is used to describe Mayer more often than anyone else except possibly Michael Lohan.

According to OK! Magazine Jennifer Aniston is pretty much in agreement. Obviously in love with the singer, Aniston recently got back together with him, with one caveat:

Keep your mouth shut about our relationship and stop blogging about your personal life!

“Jen is fanatical about keeping her relationships private,” an insider tells OK!, adding that the former Friends star was “horrified” when John spoke publicly to OK! on a New York City street about their August breakup.

John’s kiss-and-tell antics had Jen-watchers believing the singer was arrogant — and had exploited her for publicity. Months later, John would come back and beg Jen for a second chance.

“She told him she wanted to get back together, too, but no more street-corner press conferences and blogging about her,” a Jen insider says. Desperate, John agreed.

 [From OK! Magazine]

So far John has been obedient, but the guy has a long history of not being able to stop talking about himself and now that he’s Jennifer Aniston’s boyfriend, that means talking about her, too. There are not many people who are as openly self-absorbed as Mayer, who think the rest of the world want to know every little detail about them and their life. Even if you’re a fan, the relentless attention seeking has to get old. I wouldn’t know, I’m just guessing.

Jennifer Aniston likes the attention, too, but she rarely speaks about her life, preferring to be seen and not heard. For Jen’s sake I hope John can be as content with just photographs of the two of them and steer clear of the blogs and verbal outbursts.

Jennifer Aniston hopped on a plane and flew over to the UK to be with her new bf, John Mayer while he’s on tour. The two have been inseparable since they announced their relationship at an event on June 12. Jennifer arrived at Heathrow airport this morning ready to go, scarf and all. Mayor will be performing in Birmingham tomorrow and has four more dates in the UK this week before he’s scheduled to start his US tour in July. Things are getting pretty hot in the kitchen…..Aniston even introduced John Mayor to her bff Courtney Cox and her husband, David Arquette. The four of them have been seen having dinner together more often then not lately. From there, the two love birds hopped on a private jet and flew off to a cozy pad in Punta Mita Mexico, owned by…you guessed it! Joe Francis’. She’s also introduced the Mayor to her dad……which can only mean one thing………getting pretty serious!